Recovering from a Mistake
The other day, I lost all my work by hitting the wrong button and forgetting to turn on my backup. I hate making mistakes. It feels like such a setback. Trying again after a mistake is frustrating, sometimes even more challenging than the first time. It’s scarier, more draining, and often requires new ideas or […]
Do Scary Things
The scariest moment I’ve ever had on a bike was the first time I tried to ride a two-wheeler. The uncertainty of not knowing what I was doing while trying to figure it out on the move was terrifying. The whole experience felt overwhelming, and I was scared. The second scariest ride came after my […]
It’s Their Fault
How many people can you blame for the issues you’re dealing with today? We’ve all been hurt, pushed down, or betrayed by someone. We’ve all experienced situations where our expectations went sideways due to other people’s actions, whether intentional or not. And we might be right—maybe our lives would have taken a better or easier […]
The Universe is Against Me
Everything seems to be going badly for me recently. My projected costs for life are more than I anticipated, my bike tire has gotten a flat every other week, and the new place I moved into has multiple issues on a regular basis. It feels like every decision I’ve made recently has come with a […]
Comparing is Dangerous
I was watching a documentary about poverty and homelessness in the U.S., and I got curious about the comments. A lot of people were saying things like, “I thought I had it bad, but now I know to be grateful.” One person even shared an old saying: “I felt bad for myself because I had […]
Getting Unstuck
If you’re struggling today, I get it. I don’t always want to do the things I know I need to do either. And, I don’t usually want a pep talk about it. When I’m stuck, I want to lean into the struggle and use it as an excuse to avoid the tasks at hand. But […]
Getting More Flexible
I’ve been working on my flexibility—both physical and mental. For my mind, I’ve found that the more I accept there are an infinite number of outcomes for any given effort, the less I stress over the results. When I put in work on a project or in life, I naturally want the outcome to be […]
Learning From Trashy TV?
I’ve recently added some reality shows to my daily screen time. For the past few years, I’ve mostly been watching, reading, and listening to helpful, self-improving content, so it was a bit surprising to suddenly find myself hooked on something different. Lately, it’s been **Financial Audit** with Caleb Hammer. He invites guests on to review […]
Craving Chaos
What happens when you feel the itch for a dopamine hit? Sometimes I’ll be working for a while, getting things done, and suddenly it feels like the satisfaction meter is running low. I catch myself wanting more than the quiet contentment of a job well done—I need something *different*. That’s when I start feeling drawn […]
How I Stop the Worry Cycle
It’d be nice not to get pissed when someone casually says, “Don’t worry about it.” What does that even mean? Isn’t worry supposed to help us think long and hard about solving problems? I’m starting to think it’s not. I’d love to eliminate worry from my mind. Wouldn’t you? When I worry, my brain starts […]
