First Draft

Every blog I write starts as a draft, and I know it will need at least one rewrite. This is true for any writing, whether it’s playwrights, authors, TV writers, or anyone else. We all write, rewrite, and revise. In fact, TV writers often stay on set during filming to make on-the-spot changes to lines and dialogues.

The writing process can be tedious, but there’s a sense of freedom in knowing that when I write, I can make mistakes. By viewing my work as a draft, I’m open to change, and this mindset takes the pressure off having to make the first draft of thoughts and sentences perfect.

I’ve also adopted the “draft” concept for building my schedule. When I plan out my day, week, month, etc., I consider it a draft. I still avoid over-scheduling and prioritize work-life balance, but unexpected things happen – I may get sick, experience a family emergency, or encounter something as simple as a flat tire, which can derail my carefully planned day.

By approaching all my plans as drafts, I can be more comfortable with the inevitable changes that come my way.

ACTION: Consider today’s schedule as a first draft of your plans. Allow room for flexibility as the unforeseen will inevitably disrupt it.

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