Organize Like a Minimalist

When I think about getting organized, my first instinct is often to add something new—buy storage bins, gadgets, or tools to “fix” the problem. But the minimalist philosophy reminds me that the solution isn’t about adding more; it’s about working with what I already have. That’s where the phrase “a place for everything and everything in its place” comes in.

This phrase doesn’t mean minimalists live by strict rules or systems, but it does reflect their mindset. It’s not about perfection—it’s about creating calm and clarity by being intentional with what we own and where it belongs. If we borrow this idea, it’s not just about tidying up—it’s about creating a space that feels manageable and peaceful.

One of the hardest parts of organizing is figuring out where to start. For me, this phrase makes it simple. I pick up one item and ask, “Does this have a place?” If it does, I put it there. That tiny action gives me momentum. And if it doesn’t have a place? That’s when I pause and decide—do I really need this, can I create a place for this or is it time to let it go? Even one small decision like that can make a difference.

Over time, those tiny actions add up. When everything has a place, it’s easier to reset at the end of the day or take a minute here and there to tidy up. And the result? A calmer space that leads to a calmer mind.

ACTION: Pick one area of your space—your desk, a drawer, or even just a single shelf. Spend a few minutes asking, “Does this belong here?” Put back what does, and decide what to do with what doesn’t. A little effort can go a long way in creating order and peace.

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